Gratitude & Happiness · 2 min read
The Five Keys to Happiness: What Research Keeps Finding
Five well-supported ingredients of wellbeing: close relationships, meaningful engagement, physical health, gratitude and generosity, with practical ways to build each.
In short
Across many studies, a few factors consistently support wellbeing: close relationships, engaging and meaningful activity, physical health (sleep, movement), noticing the good (gratitude, savouring) and giving to others. None is a quick fix; together they help.
Happiness has been studied intensively for decades. There's no single formula, and much depends on circumstances, genetics and luck. But research keeps pointing to a handful of factors that, for most people, support a sense of wellbeing. Here are five.
1. Close relationships
If there's one finding that appears again and again, it's that relationships matter. The Harvard Study of Adult Development, which has followed participants since 1938, has repeatedly highlighted warm, close relationships as a strong predictor of later-life health and happiness. The annual World Happiness Report also consistently finds social support to be one of the factors most strongly associated with national differences in life satisfaction.
Build it: Make regular time for people you love. Call a friend. Join a group. Our article on five ways to add connection has ideas.
2. Engagement and meaning
Psychologist Martin Seligman proposed the PERMA model of wellbeing, which includes Positive emotion, Engagement, Relationships, Meaning and Accomplishment. Engagement refers to being absorbed in activities that use your strengths. Meaning comes from being connected to something larger than yourself.
Build it: Spend time on activities where you lose track of time. Clarify your values (see the first step in finding meaning) and look for ways to live by them.
3. Physical health
Sleep, movement and nutrition affect mood as well as health. Regular physical activity is associated with better mental health, and poor sleep is linked with lower mood and difficulty managing emotions.
Build it: Aim for regular movement you enjoy, consistent sleep and mostly whole foods. Our challenge days on sleep and getting outside are good starting points.
4. Noticing the good
Gratitude practices, such as writing down good things or expressing thanks, have been linked to modest improvements in wellbeing in many studies. Savouring, deliberately noticing and enjoying positive moments, can also help.
Build it: Start a gratitude journal. Slow down to enjoy small pleasures. Share good news with others.
5. Giving to others
Generosity seems to benefit the giver as well as the receiver. Research has found that spending money on others, volunteering and performing acts of kindness are associated with greater happiness.
Build it: Do one kind act a day. Volunteer. Give to a cause you care about. See small ways to make a big difference.
What doesn't matter as much as we think
Research suggests some things matter less than we expect, at least beyond a certain point. Material possessions often bring short-lived pleasure as we adapt to them. Income does matter, especially for meeting basic needs and reducing stress, though researchers continue to debate exactly how much additional income adds at higher levels.
Happiness isn't constant
Even the happiest people experience sadness, stress and disappointment. Wellbeing is about the overall balance and direction of your life, not feeling good all the time.
When happiness feels out of reach
If you've felt persistently low, empty or unable to enjoy things for more than a couple of weeks, these tips may not be enough. Depression is common and treatable; please talk to a doctor or mental health professional.
Try this
Rate yourself from 1 to 10 on each of the five keys. Choose the lowest and take one small action to strengthen it this week.
Related: The Happiness Project and how to write a list of 100 things that make you happy.
Sources and further reading
Questions people ask
Which key matters most?
Research most consistently points to close relationships, but the most useful key for you is usually the one you're neglecting.
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